Being told how good you are at giving head is a pretty big ego boost. I like knowing I can take someone out of her own head. While you need a happy medium between hard and soft, fast and slow, suction and licking, what she needs is a balancing act, too. Though many men use oral sex as a way to get their partner ready for intercourse, women have another tip before going all the way: Plus, for most women, the time it takes to orgasm is often longer than the time it takes for their male partner to achieve the goal. Men's reasons for loving a little tongue action are manifold, but they mostly stem from the same fundamental and not totally shocking truth:
One example is the We-Vibe Fling.
11 Men Sound Off on Why It's Empowering to Give Oral Sex
I feel like women get so used to dudes just lying back and expecting head that it becomes routine and a little boring, despite it being inherently new and exciting. I like to imagine what it must feel like. Related stories by this author. So help her get off! It's also the most reliable way to make a woman orgasm. That sentiment also applies to sex: